Settling in Life!

I have a good innocent(??) friend, who asks endless questions. I’ll always try to answer him . It’s always nice talking to him and debating about various topics. Lately, we used to talk about marriage and he used to say he would marry only a working girl. ( those debates in a separate post )

Yesterday, we were having lunch and he said, “If my marriage gets delayed, then it’ll take more timefor me to settle in life”. I couldn’t get whet he meant, so I asked him for the reason? I have seen only people who always talk about settling in life and then getting married!

He said, “You know that I’ll marry only a working girl. If it gets delayed, then it’ll take more time to buy a house and repay the loan. If I get married sooner, I can plan my future effectively!”

Well, something to think about !!!

His latest question:

He came to my desk, looked at the crystal globe and asked , why the earth is in slanting position?

  • :: The Protector ::

    >hi Krish,
    hopped from Vanathi’s….

    Sivakasi – Over Sounduuuuuuuuuuuu

    Good to hv such a friend….u can explore things know…… πŸ˜€


  • Krish

    Sivakasi over sounduthaan… but i enjoyed this masala movie πŸ™‚ ..good one after Ghilli!!!

    yes! it’s always nice to have such friend πŸ™‚

  • Krish

    Asking tough questions πŸ™‚

    Well, I think I am settled even now. I don’t have any well set targets to call that “settling in life”. Not that I don’t have any material desires(to have own house, more money etc.,). I have my dreams. I believe in enjoying the life whatever the state we are in and but still trying to improve it…..

    Just I need to find one with same attitude πŸ™‚

  • Vanathi


  • Somu


    Thats a valid answer about marriage… Most, or atleast the few that I know, think in the same lines :o)

    Now, I am waiting for the answer to his second question ? Do i need to wait for the next post ?

  • Krish

    hmmmmmm πŸ™‚

    Most of my friends who I know married non-working girls! So I didn’t think about these advantages until he told me yesterday :o)

  • J

    >adapaavaamae πŸ™ ippadi elaam irukaanghala?. sharing the monetary things after marriage is fine. but athukaagavae wait panrathu ellaam is bad (atleast to me).

  • Krish

    Some people say it openly and many hide their true intentions. What’s wrong in getting married sooner so that they would settle early .Even girls would want to marry the one who is earning more. That’s the way world operates and I don’t find it wrong πŸ™‚

  • NaiKutti

    >first time here… hopped from smyta’s blog…

    the first qn and answer — people have diff. opinions and this topic love, marriage etc has been beaten to death w/o any conclusions πŸ™‚

    for the second question — i think the slanting position is there for stability reasons and also gives more readability.

  • exasparater

    >lolz! good friend..

    earth cant be straight so it is in a slanting position(just for fun).

  • Narayanan Venkitu

    >Umm…Your friend doesn’t belong in this earth..!! Big time thinker looks like.!! I am glad you are enjoying all this.!!

    It it were me.!! Sorry..!! no offenses meant.!

  • Chez

    >Simple. The slant position is to match the earth’s axis. Then, u’d ask me why the earth itself is interpreted to be slanting in its rotation. its because of the magnetic effect. πŸ™‚

  • Krish

    yes u r right. These things goes without conclusions. But we have to discuss it once in a while at least πŸ™‚

    πŸ™‚ sure i would pass on this info to my friend.

    hahaha…. yeah, it’s a good time pass.

    b’cos of magnetic effect??
    Thanks anyway.. I woudl pass it on to him !

  • Twin-Gemini

    >Thats a lot of planning. He’s thought it out completely! πŸ™‚

  • chaitΓΌ

    >i don’t say its strange… but i never come across a person who thinks in this way
    nice blog

  • susubala

    >Hope he is a practical man….but better to discuss all these things before marriage. If she opts to stay back at home after marriage, what he is going to do ???

  • Krish

    Yeah.. even I was startled by his arguement πŸ™‚
    Thanks for dropping by!

    Yeah…I am there to advice him or confuse him on the possibilities in life right πŸ™‚

  • Krish

    >@gemini Anand:
    Yep…That’s a very good plan. Even I am considering it πŸ™‚

  • Nth Dimension


    All these questions probably remind you of Balaguru or Sound Arumugam:) Atleast it reminds me of them and their questions on practically everything!

    Hows you treating life these days?

  • Me

    >hello oru periya master plan ye potu vecirkaaru ivaru innocent aaa …idhellam konjam too much…..:)

  • Me

    >aanalum ippdi ezhudhi unga friend image aaa damage panirka venam ….:)

  • Krish


    Hida Daphlo πŸ™‚
    Nice to see you here !

    For me is going great…:)

    He is innocent enough to reveal his true feelings.